The Ring Tone on my phone is John Cage's 4 mins and 33 seconds, I rarely hear it when it rings. What I hear instead is the quiet of an eternity beckoning.
Excuses are like arse holes-we would be lacking without them.
The best we can hope for is that they are clean and fine, and clear of the smell of self pity; an odour that others will recognise and distance themselves from before the carrier realises why they are kept at the distance they are. .
Philip Larking wrote 'To be honest in sex is to be tender,
to be tender is not to be lustful,
then clearly, between tenderness
and lust, a large gap remains
to be bridged. I won't say
'It Doesn't Matter', but it is
all a question of luck, isn't it?'