It Was Fifty Years Ago Today

That this album was released, it has been popular 
ever since. Nobody knows how many times over
it has 'paid for itself' as a recording. Few would want 
to guess how often it is performed live by tribute bands.

Like the subject matter the albums tackles,
the album has passed into myth and legend.

For the creators of the work still working, Nick Mason
Roger Waters, and David Gilmour this has been
problematic-how to create strong new work
and resolve past royalties disputes without
the lawyers who will settle the matter 
getting most of the money?

'If only', Waters Gilmour and Mason might think,
'We had divided the credits better in the  first place.'.
Lyrics; Roger Waters', Sound design Nick Mason
/Roger Waters/Alan Parsons,
all music Water/Gilmour/Mason/Wright,
special writing credit for Clare Torry for her
contribution to 'The Great Gig In the Sky'. 
This would have created more agreement later.   

 

Great Turn Offs Of Our Time (27) The Eternal Enemy

Every so often I hear that my government
'have declared that the organisation
known as (add name here... ) are terrorists'.

What comes next is that the banned group
can only be spoken of in the national press
under the new name that the government
have tarred them with, in a press
where how they are written about
is only on government terms, 
to complete their 'terrorist' status.

After terrorists can't be known
by their chosen name,
or in an otherwise relatively open media
can't speak their own words in their own voice, 
it is but a short hop skip and jump
before the government decide
to make the terrorists permanent
enemies of the state who are never
to be negotiated with, even when
there is win-win political gain to be made. 

The terrorists are now the eternal enemy
and will never be accepted
on their own terms ever again.
Until they no longer matter.  

Palchemy

Is the science of expanding and transforming
 friendships so that they blossom in unexpected ways.

 

Happy Anniversary

This blog started twelve years ago today.

Who knew when it started, 
that the world of which it is apart is still here?

This blog has not been lost in the changes 
that have swept through the world since then,
and I am like every other bloggers and writers,
who for all our advancing years
still write, but we not write for money
we are still writing today.

Here's to longevity, however uncertain it's purpose....   

The Collective Pronoun Of Lack Of Choice

When I was a child there was an 'us'
in which the 'them' mattered more,
and we all knew it and denied it.

There was a 'we' in the crowd
that I had to follow, 

that over-ran me
and left me hollow.

There was 'I' too, but it was one
that I was never allowed to be, 

until long after he could be counted.

Like a lot of other people,
I felt alone as I endured those times,
when who I could have been
remained an unknown unknown.

We are many, and we all anonymous survivors.

Great Turn Offs Of Our Time (26)

Whenever I read the word 'iconic'
in a secular context, as applied to photographs
or of a now famous artist, I often wonder
about the phrase that 'iconic' has replaced,
that should have been used instead. 

'Oversold' perhaps, 'over-hyped', or
'On which the public have been force-fed
the myth for so long that now every attempt
at debunking those myths reinforces them.'.  

The Wrong Optimism

The affirmation of cynicism,
because the cynic proved right,
is surely all the more dispiriting
to the majority who in their passivity
believed in better for what proved to be
the absence of clear reason.

Moments Of Truth

often present themselves as tragedy;
comedy is the reassuring vanity
of finding mirth through loss. 

Better Sight Through Saint Dymphna

The patron saint of P.T.S.D,
Saint Dymphna, tells me
that we have to suffer to see,
and s/he who suffers most sees clearest. 

Short Term Cleanliness

What with all the sportswashing, greenwash
and other commercial activity to cover up
the corporate malfeasance that destroys citizenship,
and the civil duty to make the planet cleaner, 
there is a lot of dirty money 'out there'
that has to find a lot places to go to,
for it to clean up the image of it's owners
who spoil us by selling us goods
that soil all life the planet in ways
that we are not allowed to know. 

The Tidier Life With Kurt Vonnegut

 'Laughter and tears are both responses 
to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, 
since there is less cleaning up to do afterwards'-Kurt Vonnegut

Signs Of Greater Age (54)

Where clothing fits the tightest in old age 
it reminds the wearer of lives past
when wearing tight clothing was a sign
to it's wearers that they were sexy,
and it attracted a welcome attention.

In later life the process reverses.
Old age, however well dressed it is,
is not just 'no longer sexy',
it invites a lack of recognition, 
where the more it seeks it,
the more others blank it,
and wish that it did not exist.

  

A Life Not Lived Through Letters

Every week in the care home in rural Lincolnshire the English language lesson doubled as the time for us to write to our parents. For me that meant writing to my mother, leaving it to her to decide how much of what I wrote to her was for sharing with my father and sister. Even at the age of twelve I would address the envelope to 'Mr and Mrs... ' and the initials before the surname would be my mother's, not my fathers. I had a mental block about my father that defied explanation. If any member of staff in the place observed it, then none of them said anything to me about it. 

I write 'care home' here, that was yet another evasion. For Social Services or the county education department to sell to parents the idea of sending their children to this place, then parents who were worried about their awkward children had to be told that the place was a school, nothing could be said about it being a care home. I was too young when I was sent to know what a care home was and how careless care homes could be, particularly when they changed the name of what the place was known for.   

I can still picture the room all ten of us sat and wrote in, to write, where I sat somewhat apart half way towards the back of the room, partially blocked from being seen from the front of the class by black shelves with wood effect borders full of books where, unwatched, I could safely lose my concentration whilst thinking what to write and my detachment would not be spotted. The other thirty seven or so pupils in the other four classrooms were also quietly writing to their parents. The school was quiet enough with that lesson that in summer we could hear the birdsong through the open windows. I know now that my letters were read by the staff for signs of, well, emotional disturbance that they had not spotted by any other means. I did not think about them reading our letters then. If I had raised the matter of my need of privacy from the staff then they would say 'we have to check your English grammar'. We had to leave the envelopes open for the staff to seal, after which they put a stamp on them all and posted them off. 

I had no apt language for how I missed Mother. For the first two years I would write S.W.A.L.K. on the back of the envelope, half aware that it was something that I had seen in the films about WW2 that we were allowed to watch on television of a Saturday afternoon, where a a soldier might put that acronym on the back of the envelope when sending a letter to his girlfriend. I was entirely unaware of what those films left out, that the wartime audiences knew, so they could fill in the gaps I did not notice. I did not know that the acronym was 'inappropriate' for putting on the back of an envelope containing a letter to your mother, which officially was meant for all the family. My misunderstanding of the use of  S.W.A.L.K was compounded by the care home not wanting me to know what a girlfriend was, and what they, or I, were for. So how could I know S.W.A.L.K. was not apt?

I have no idea now what I wrote to Mother for 39 weeks a year for five years in the mid 1970s, or what happened to the letters after she received them. My mother is still alive, still living in the terraced house my father first bought in 1960 and finished paying for when he became redundant twenty years later. He died over a decade ago. She is still sentient and mobile after her own fashion as she approaches becoming ninety years old. For all I know she still has those old letters that I wrote in an awkward scrawl with my left between the age of eleven and sixteen nearly fifty years ago.

For ten years I kept the letters that she sent me in return, letters where the safest subject was what she was doing on her allotment, writing about how she planned her allotment for the coming year. What to plant, when to plant it and how to prepare the ground was proof that she could plan when what she made plans for was obedient enough to her. It says a lot that so few other subjects could be written about safely in any detail because they were less safe subjects for writing about, their descriptions contained too many sharp edges and required too much detail to be made sense of for the pages of the small writing pad that she allowed herself to write on.

I kept her letters together in a bundle. I doubt I read them but I can't be sure about that. The bundle was treated as a valued relic amongst my personal possessions up to 1986, when some, though far from all, the scales fell from my eyes about how definitively I was a misfit within my family and I had openly been a misfit for 15 years, and it was a subject that none of us talked about.  

At the time I 'lost' the letters I was moving from a big flat I had furnished through friends and shared with people I thought I trusted but I had fallen out with, to a small flat with the help of a new-found friend who I would write to when we had to live apart for several decades after. The decision behind the change of flat was preceded by several painful arguments and a  break between me and my family, where they laid bare the history between us that previously they had avoided. That was when I learned how much I did not fit around them, and they would not let me fit around anyone else less painfully elsewhere. 

I have no doubt now that I was right to leave those letters behind, though for some time I wondered. What they symbolised had become utterly devalued. Mothers letters were one side of a dialogue of the blind where the accumulated misunderstanding were beyond absurdity, with hindsight.   

I left them on the mantle shelf in the living room of the flat that I was leaving, knowing that my mother would inspect the place, that it was tidy enough to pass on to the next tenant. I did not tell her they were there. I left them for her to claim if she found them. Quietly I started to change from being the awkward misfit those letters symbolised, to becoming a calmer character.  

Absence Remakes The Heart

It is strange, even estranging,
to find that you know yourself  better 
through the recollection 
of how you once were
with now absent friends 
than you knew yourself
when those friends were there.

It is easier to ask in isolation
'who is this stranger I am now'
than it was to accept feeling odd
when friends wanted you to hide
the parts of yourself that took you
away from what they wanted to do
to prepare for the next party.

Be consoled. There are no parties now.

Unless parties are for one
and people have them alone
in which case go, get started.

Looking Back, Seeing Forward

It is only recently that I started
to revise all my past blogs,
written from 2011 onwards.
With that I began to realise
how much what I wrote
could improve with practice.

What cheered me more
was realising that where once
I felt 'behind' when I realised
that my buddy started in 2008, 
three years before me.
At the time I started three years
felt like a small eternity.

But a dozen years later, to still be at it,
whether we are together or apart,
is truer as a measure of my application
than when either of us started.  

 

 

Happy Valentine Whatever Your Sexual Preference

I don't know if any variations got left off this list
for them being too new. I am well behind the trends
in how I understand modern slang
about sex, gender, and choice.
What I am ahead with is how much
I value consent and consensus,
I know how much they outlast what bodies
want to do, will do, or won't do.
I prize how when emotional intelligence stretches
we call it 'love' and it makes life fuller.  

 

Castles In The Air

 'A neurotic is a man 
is a man who builds
castles in the air,
a psychotic is a man
who lives there.
A psychiatrist is the man
who collects the rent.'.

-Dr Anthony Clare

On The First Anniversary Of Russia Invading Ukraine

I often ask 'What came before that'
when 'the news' presents me with a narrative.

Naturally, the news does not give me what I ask
-that would be yesterdays news, last year's leftovers,
news from the last decade, or news from previous centuries,
all filed away in the layers and layers of digital media
that are now our shared reconstructed modern memory. 

It will soon be a year since the Russian invade Ukraine,
and also a decade since several small wars
which at the time seemed like no more
than the settling of minor old scores
started and smouldered like small fires
that somehow could not be extinguished.

These wars did not look like  proxy activity
by a former empire trying to regain the lands
that it had had control of, as the Soviet Empire
collapsed a mere thirty years ago.

How and why that empire collapsed
is easy to answer the collapse started in 1975,
as the ailing Brezhnev stopped leading the country
but held on to power for another seven years.
His immediate successors were no better.

By 1985 the rot that Gorbachev had to fight
had become too much part of the system
for it to be removed. To begin to understand
how the rot took over please start watching here 
and let Adam Curtis show you how an empire rots from within.

Telephonophobia

I like landlines, I like the telephone line
that connects everyone through the wires,
and limits how far they can move.
When I get a phone call I like for there
to be no screens near me as we both sit
in different places concentrating on the voice,
the words, and the ideas that we share.

One of my friends has I-don't-know-how-many-ways
of being contacted, a landline, a mobile phone line
in an area of low levels of connection, twitter, instagram,
and a whatsapp app, whatever that is, besides.

I say he is my friend. I very rarely ring him.
Whichever line contact him on, it is the wrong one.
He does not answer and he never collects his messages.

When I really need to talk to him I write him a note.
I get on the local bus and deliver the note through his letterbox.
Then I get the bus home, and wait for my landline to ring.

It is the only route I know that bypasses his telephonophobia....

My Ears Are Singing

With the noise of the silken 'ear worms'
that my mind adopts from what I hear
and lets have free reign over my concentration.

Success Through Failure

'To fail elegantly is a greater success
than to have to succeed
and [to] never have to admit to failure.
In your élan [as you fail] you will learn more
about yourself and know yourself
beyond the definition of others...
your self-definition will shape
how others see you...  that is why
failure is more successful than success.'.

 - Quentin Crisp

Hot News; Pope Foreswears Television

In a first for nearly a century
the world now has a pope
who will not watch television.

Pope Francis has promised The Virgin Mary
that he would not watch it. 

I might be wrong, but he may
have extended this commitment
to leaving others to appear on it,
as much as he can, as well.

I look forward to many other Catholic,
and non-Catholics, following his example.
And lead more wholesome and engaging lives.

It does not mean that they can't listen to radio.

The Patron Saint of Television,
St Clare of Assisi, has so far
proved unavailable for comment.

Great Turn Off's Of Our Time (26)

Adding the word 'Tragically'
before naming any of the many musicians
who has died well past their creative peak
any time in the last forty years, 
as they are spoken of as if their brilliance
ran continuously from when the musician
first picked up their instruments to when they died.

For modern musicians their fame
was always going to outlast their talent;
their fame is the most reliable aspect
of their pension plan, and this after
corporate interests buy up the rights
to the pasts of once-viable live performers
for some sort of indefinite and profitable
creative after-life, well before
the now sold out artist has pegged it.

Rest assured dear reader, there is no tragedy
to be found in a life that is well lived,
except where the liver lacked the generosity
to share their fortune and creativity
amongst the needy whilst they could. 

A Reminder

for those who browse a lot (like I do)
that ''they' know how to track you
by your browsing history' and
'they' will seek to give you more
of what you already have, as if it is
all that you ever wanted. Use this image
as the wallpaper on your computer
to remind yourself that we are all data,
 'to be tracked, and a few of the 'they' are us.     

 

Picture Set Of The Month - February - 1970s Posters for IBM

Ken White (1935-85) was an American Graphic Designer.

With John Anderson and Tom Bluhm, he headed up
the design team at the IBM Design Centre in Boulder,
 Colorado. 

 Together they initiated a poster program as a platform
for elevating internal communications and initiatives
 within the company. 

These posters were put up everywhere throughout
IBM campuses, with the subjects covered
including family days out, work security
and equal opportunities in work.