Pay Attention To What You Want to Avoid

wanting to avoid something 
may be your best guide as to
what actually needs your attention...

 

Empathy Always Requires Reminders

Whether the reminder looks like seeking cupboard love or not.

How To See Christmas

And wanting to avoid the modern Christmas is quite natural.

A Good Question

deserves an even better answer.

The Work Ethic

Many people find that if they have to suffer,
 then being paid to suffer is better than going unpaid
 whilst suffering, but the money is a poor compensation
 for their loss. By the time they find this out it is usually
too late to remake the choices. Whatever their pay
(or the lack of it) they are too old to adopt a vocation.